Category: Singles Spit Swap
My name is Lavar I am single 26 years old male looking for a single female 21 to 27 years old that wants to try at a real stable relationship. I want someone that is clear about what she wants out of a relationship from the beginning. Someone who can have a good conversation. She has to make me laugh. She can be some what of a tv junkie and into movies and likes to cook. I want a women tat is secure about herself and can say when they love someone they mean it a 100% even when things get a little bad. I am not looking for someone with a whole lot of money just enough to get by. I want a women that knows how to be herself and wont change on who is around. I want a women that will take the chance to get to know me and not judge me on the things that she hear. She has to be very down to earth and caring and respect full and understands that sex does not solve everything
Okay more about me
I live in NYC
5 feet 4 inches
African American
Brown Eyes
short beard and must stash with afro which I have to get cut
down to earth
very friendly
outgoing
sarcastic
smart
like to read
kinda a tech person
look to cook
Im a beginning runner
Health Coach with Take Shape For Life
Favorite city Is Boston
I listen to all kinds of music
I love kids And want a family one day
love the movies
Hope to go back to school to become a personal trainer
respect full love animals
kind hearted
ladies if you feel that you could be for me send PM for info to contact me
first off, learn how to spell the word woman, and you might get some worthwhile results; you wrote women several times, which is plural, not singular.
Perhaps he's looking for (Plural,)?
Besides, who looking for love, or a boyfriend/girlfriend studies these for grammar and spelling? Most are only interested in content?
his post is contradictory, which is up for criticism, since he posted it.
sometimes he says "women," and sometimes he says "she."
so, how is anyone supposed to know what he means, given that fact? we aren't mind readers, after all.
I'm a very nice women, so I look forward to chatting with you soon. LOL
Good luck to you, Fella. Hope you find what you're looking for.
So he doesn't show strength in his use of the English language.
Does this make him unlovable, or undatable?
Na, but it might not make him a great cyberer. LOL
True. Lol
If I were a woman, or a women, yes, it would make him undatable. Plus, the
fact that he mentioned love in his post. You shouldn't bring that word into play
when looking for a first date. Not good form.
Quickly hide the Jews the grammar Nazis are approaching
I don't know.
We were having a public chat one night, not this poster of course.
It was established, that if you were just getting to know the woman, you were not actually dating just buddies.
Now if you dated, you had to say it was love.
Dating also ment the expection of sex, but you couldn't have dating/sex with out love.
Something like that,anyway.
This was the women's view.
Since we're on the grammar/spelling train Wayne, I think you meant "expectation". Lol
I like expection . Matches the forum, does it not? Lol
I totally missed that. Made me laugh. Smile.
I don't think it's fair that the OP has so many errors and then calls himself smart. Just sayin'...
Yeah, Cody I'm with you on this one, his grammar/spelling makes him undateable.
P.S. I don't agree with post 11 at all. Isn't dating getting to know someone who you are interested in romantically?
But then, people often tell me that I think like a man so there you have it.
I didn't say it. Just stated the opinion of most in the discussion.
Yes, I agree,, but I'm a man, so. Smile.
Oh, and her spelling won't matter much if she's....
Hello, my name is Tylaer. I am looking for a man who's honest, has a good head on his shoulders, can keep me laughing, knows howtokeep me satisfied, and can hold good conversant. I live in Va. My cookig skills aren't the greastest, but I get by. I have a job that keeps me with enough money to take care of me. I have my own apartment. The only thing keeping me company at night is my four legged daughter (my dog) China. She's a 2-year-old chawawa mix. I want one child once I get my career off the ground. I'd like to become eiter a 911 dispatcher or a court room stenographer. My hobbies include: working out, making money, spending money, sex, collecting stuffed animals, reading a good book, writing, spending time with my family, going to parties, and traveling to see my friends. I am 5/2, female of course, 120 pounds, African American, have long black hair that I keep in dreads, and brown eyes. I will describe my sexier asets when we start talking in private. If interested, send me a pm. Look forward to hearing frm you. Hope you're enjoying the holidays.
You sound yummy, but now you've got to post your own add.
Smile.
Oh, and about spending money. Are we talking yours, or his? Hmm?
Oh, and one other thing.
Now, I don't know how important this is, but if you read the rest of this board... Well Tylaer, dear,it seems grammar, spelling, are the measure of a worthy partner.
Just sayin!
I like spending and making y own money. I don't need or want his. I don't need him throwing hs money in my face. As for grammar and spelling, I learned it in school, so why not use it in real life correct? I'm not going to post my own add, I've had bad experinces with that.
Cool. On the money part anyway.
Now, as to the grammar! I personally don't believe it is a direct measure of a persons worthiness for love, however, get ready.
I don't either. I personally don't see what grammar has to do with getting to know someone and seeing if the two of you are compatible.
So you don't want a rich woman, just enough to get
by? Just enough to take care of you, right? A
woman who can cook and financially take care of
you because you don't work? Good luck with that.
Women ask for this all the time, so. Smile.
"I want a man that can provide." Or "I want a good provider."
Ah but as men we're not supposed to do that, he for she, the white feather campaigns and all that.
That's what I thought when I read this post TNTiger; we're not in the 1959's any more.
Oh crap! I can't have dating or sex without love??? Gawd! I'll never get laid again. lol
I've debated that topic many times in the public section.
"I can't date or have sex without love.""Before I have sex, I have to have a strong connection with the person."
Fine, I'm not advocating jumping in to bed, or other with anyone at the drop of a hat, but I can't see how waiting until you believe you are in love will make a relationship stronger or better in the long run.
I've can’t honestly see how withholding sex for 6 months, or some specific sign to be a benefit at all.
Sex on the first date, or 90th date won't cause me to respect the girl any differently, nor will I get to know her any better then I'm going to anyway.
Next, when we do finally start having sex, it won't seal the deal and set us on a life journey together.
We could still brake up right after the second time we have sex over something not even related to sex at all.
Or maybe, well, she thinks I just suck at pleasing her, so all the love, promises, and how she got to know me goes out the bedroom door soon she’s dressed.
Smile.
Anymore, I agree with Wayne, although I know all the cool kids / popular ones think differently. I'm just not with the herd on this one anymore.
For me the whole spelling thing depends--not just on dating or anything but just in general. If you say you're from here and you can't spell, that's a problem. If you're from another country who's primary language is not English then its excusable to an extent.
Oh, and the ironic thing there is people who are learning English don't make spelling mistakes, they mostly make grammar mistakes. So even there its rare to see. Not saying I judge anyone for it, but it is rather annoying.
quote "eiter a 911 dispatcher or a court room stenographer" close quotes
You call that a career? Oh, and with the sample of grammar I saw you aren't getting anywhere near the stenographer part of it.